Muaj ntau yam uas yuav ua rau tus dev tso zis rau nws tus kheej, txawm li cas los xij, thaum peb pom tias nws coj tus cwj pwm no tom qab kev saib xyuas lossis ib txoj hauv kev yooj yim, peb yuav tsum xav txog tias qee yam tsis raug thiab qhov ntawd yuav tsum ua kom koj txoj kev noj qab nyob zoo.
Nyob rau hauv tsab xov xwm no peb yuav tshuaj xyuas qhov uas nquag nquag piav qhia tau vim tus dev tso zis thaum peb muab nws tso, the cov kauj ruam ua raws li peb yuav tsum ua thiab qee cov lus qhia ntxiv uas tuaj yeem pab peb txhim kho koj lub cev thiab lub siab lub ntsws. Vim li no, yog tias koj tus dev yog ib tus neeg tso zis thaum koj qhia lawv txoj kev hlub los yog kev hlub, kab lus no yuav coj koj mus nrhiav kev daws teeb meem.
Vim li cas ib co dev pees lawv tus kheej?
tso zis yog ib qho physiological xav tau uas tus dev lub cev nqa tawm lawm. Cov menyuam dev pib muaj yeem tswj tso zis thaum lub sijhawm hloov pauv, uas suav nrog 15 txog 20 hnub, txawm hais tias nws tsis yog txog plaub lossis yim lub lis piam thaum lawv nyob. muaj peev xwm yeem tso zis rau hauv ntawv xov xwm. Tom qab ntawd, lawv yuav muaj peev xwm kawm tso zis rau hauv txoj kev, nruab nrab ntawm peb mus rau rau lub hlis ntawm lub neej, thaum lawv tau txais cov tshuaj tiv thaiv thawj zaug thiab npaj tawm mus sab nraud.
Cov kab mob ntsig txog tso zis hauv dev
Ua ntej txiav txim siab tias tso zis tuaj yeem yog vim muaj teeb meem kev coj cwj pwm, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau Sib nrug los ntawm cov kab mob uas cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau cov zis, xws li cystitis thiab urethritis, muaj ntau yam pathologies uas tuaj yeem ua rau incontinence thiab peb tsis raug cuam tshuam txog caresses.
Vim li no, yog tias koj tus dev tso zis rau nws tus kheej tsis yog thaum koj tso nws xwb, tab sis kuj nyob rau lwm qhov xwm txheej, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb Mus rau kws kho tsiajthiab ua ib qho kev ntsuam xyuas dav dav uas tuaj yeem ua kom paub tseeb tias tus cwj pwm no tsis yog vim muaj teeb meem. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog tus kws kho mob kuaj ntshav thiab kuaj ultrasound.
Nkauj kho siab thaum sib raug zoo
Thaum tus dev loj hlob thiab loj hlob, nws mus dhau txoj kev sib raug zoo, ib theem uas nws yuav tsum tau sim nrog txhua yam ntawm tib neeg thiab ib puag ncig uas nws yuav ntsib hauv nws cov neeg laus, vim nws yuav nyob ntawm seb nws puas tuaj yeem ua tus dev sib npaug rau yav tom ntej.[1] Yog tias lub sijhawm no peb tsis tau ua haujlwm rau kev tswj hwm, suav nrog kev saib xyuas, nws Tej zaum nws yuav tshwm sim tias, thaum kev sib raug zoo dhau mus, uas xaus nrog kev ntshai, tus dev pib muaj kev coj cwj pwm cuam tshuam txog kev ntshai thaum kov.
Yog koj tsis paub koj tus dev yav dhau los los yog pom tias thaum lub sij hawm kev sib raug zoo (uas suav nrog ntawm peb thiab kaum ob lub lis piam ntawm lub neej) koj tsis tau siv sij hawm ntau tuav nws thiab ua rau nws siv rau petting., tej zaum yuav yog qhov teeb meem no yog vim tsis muaj kev tuav pov hwm thaum ntxov.
Sensory deprivation syndrome
Yog hais tias, ntxiv rau qhov tsis ua haujlwm ntawm kev tuav, peb tau tiv thaiv peb tus dev los ntawm kev cuam tshuam nrog tib neeg thaum lub sijhawm kev sib raug zoo, yog li ua rau dog cais, peb tuaj yeem ntsib qhov teeb meem ntawm kev hnov mob tsis txaus ntseeg. Nws muaj ntau heev nyob rau hauv cov tsev neeg uas tsis txhob cia lawv tus menyuam dev tawm mus sab nraud txog thaum lawv muaj peb lub hlis, uas ua rau tus dev tsis muaj peev xwm hloov mus rau qhov xwm txheej tshiab, ib puag ncig thiab tib neeg. Nws kuj muaj tshwm sim nyob rau hauv tus mob Noah's syndrome.
Cov dev raug kev txom nyem los ntawm qhov tsis txaus ntseeg feem ntau tsis tuaj yeem cuam tshuam ib txwm muaj thiab muaj kev ntshai thiab ntshai ntawm yuav luag txhua qhov kev txhawb nqa. Qee lub sij hawm txawm ib txoj kev yooj yim tsis tsim nyog, tus aub pees txawm thaum neeg tuaj txog tsev
Neegative experiences, ntshai thiab phobias
Raws li peb tau hais dhau los, tus dev pib muaj kev ntshai thaum txoj kev sib raug zoo xaus. Txij thaum ntawd los, cov kev paub tsis zoo tuaj yeem pib ua rau lawv lub siab xav ua rau lawv muaj kev ntshai txog kev coj cwj pwm, xws li tso zis rau lawv tus kheej. Hauv qhov xwm txheej loj tshaj plaws, kev paub tsis zoo tuaj yeem dhau los ua phobias, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyuaj rau kev ua haujlwm thiab kho kom meej.
NOJ NIGH TSEEM CEEB YUAV TSUM NCO TSEG
Muaj tseeb ntshai los yog skittish, nws yog qhov ntawd koj tus dev kuj tau txais tus cwj pwm no. [ob
Ib tug dev uas muaj kev ntshai yuav sim zam cov xwm txheej uas ua rau muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb, yuav sim khiav, tawm tsam thiab txawm nyob twj ywm, zoo li petrified. Tsis muaj ib qho ntawm plaub qhov kev tawm tsam no qhia tau tias tus dev yuav ntshai ntau dua lossis tsawg dua, tab sis nws yog qhov qhia tseeb.
Yog peb tseem txiav txim siab rau txim thiab Yog peb tseem txiav txim siab rau txim thiab . Nws tau pom tias kev siv cov tswv yim uas suav nrog kev rau txim piv rau cov tswv yim uas suav nrog kev txhawb nqa zoo, ua raukev nyuaj siab thiab kev ntshai hauv dev, nrog rau ntau dua. appeasement signals rau tus tswv.[3]
Dab tso zis los ntawm kev zoo siab
Tsi ntshai, peb pom cov dev uas tuaj tso zis rau saum lub siab. Koj puas xav tias vim li cas koj tus dev pees thaum nws zoo siab? Cov xwm txheej no feem ntau tshwm sim thaum peb mus txog tsev thiab yog vim li cas peb tus dev zoo siab heev thaum nws pom peb. Nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no nws yuav yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom tsis txhob tswj nws, tham nrog nws thiab txawm tos txais nws, nrog rau lub hom phiaj kom nws pib tswj nws tus kheej ntau dua thiab cov xwm txheej tsis ua raws li ib tug tshwm sim rau tso zis.
Kuv yuav ua li cas yog kuv tus dev tso zis thaum kuv muab nws tso?
Tom qab txiav txim siab tawm ib yam kab mob, yuav tsum tau mus ntsib kws kho mob tshwj xeeb, xws li tus kws kho mob, tus kws qhia lossis tus kws qhia ntawvVim li cas? Tsis zoo li tus tswv "ib txwm", nrog rau kev paub txog cov lus canine thiab tus cwj pwm, tus kws tshaj lij yuav tuaj yeem ntsuas qhov xwm txheej kom raug, muab kev ntsuas kwv yees rau koj, cov lus qhia tshwj xeeb rau koj rooj plaub thiab tseem tuaj yeem ua nrog koj kev hloov kev coj cwj pwm ua hauj lwm rau qhov teeb meem ntau npaum li sai tau.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias tsis yog txhua tus dev yuav muaj peev xwm kov yeej lawv txoj kev ntshai. Qee lub sij hawm, kev sib xyaw ntawm cov noob caj noob ces thiab cov kev paub tsis zoo tuaj yeem ua rau peb tus khub tsis tuaj yeem kov yeej lawv qhov kev ntshai, tab sis lwm qhov kev rov zoo tuaj yeem ua tau zoo heev.
Yuav ua li cas tiv thaiv kuv tus dev kom tso zis?
Ntawm no yog qee yam 10 cov lus qhia yooj yim uas tuaj yeem pab koj tus dev kom muaj kev ntseeg siab thiab so nrog koj, txawm li cas los xij, lawv tsis yog ib qho kev kho mob, rau qhov no koj yuav tsum nrhiav kev pab cuam uas tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus kheej nyiam uas koj tus dev xav tau, tsis txhob hnov qab:
- Tsis txhob yuam tus dev nrog koj lossis nrog lwm tus, nws yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib xyuas.
- Txoj kev rau txim, txawm tias koj tus dev tso zis rau pem hauv ntej, qhov ntawd tsuas yog ua rau qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo.
- Nyob zoo koj cov kev sib raug zoo tag nrho yog li ntawd tus dev yeej paub tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim.
- Saib koj tus dev thaum nws nkaum lossis khiav tawm, tso nws qhov chaw nws thov.
- Tshaj tawm txoj kev xaiv kom tau cov pheromones hluavtaws rau cov dev nrog kev ntxhov siab uas txhim kho lawv txoj kev xav.
- Nco ntsoov tuav lub cev so kom txaus, tsis txhob ntsoos nws, zoo dua los ntawm sab.
- Tsis txhob ntsia nws, caum nws, qw rau nws, lossis lwm yam uas yuav ua rau nws chim.
- Muab khoom plig, khoom ua si thiab tham nrog nws siv lub suab qab zib, suab nrov thiab mos.
- Muab ib lub cab los yog "zes" nyob rau thaj tsam deb ntawm koj lub tsev kom tus dev mus nkaum yog nws xav.
- Ua ib qho kev nquag taug kev, tawm dag zog, txhawb kev puas siab puas ntsws lossis tsw ntxhiab ua si, maj mam maj mam.
Ntshai yog ib qho tshwm sim heev kev coj cwj pwm teeb meem thiab yog ib qho ua yuam kev tus cwj pwm ntawm tus dev uas ntshai tsam teeb meem kev sib raug zoo lossis kev raug mob. nrog kev tsim txom, vim li ntawd, koj tuaj yeem xav pom dab tsi yog 5 feem ntau cov cim qhia ntawm tus dev raug tsim txom. Yog tias koj tus dev kuj tau txais yuav, koj tuaj yeem tau txais txiaj ntsig los ntawm cov lus qhia peb muab rau koj hauv tsab xov xwm ntawm cov lus qhia rau tus dev uas ntshai ntshai. Pib hnub no ua hauj lwm zoo nrog koj tus dev thiab tsis txhob hnov qab mus ntsib tus kws kho mob tshwj xeeb yog tias rooj plaub tsis zoo los yog mob hnyav.
