Txawm koj tab tom txiav txim siab tos txais tus dev rau hauv koj lub tsev lossis yog tias koj twb nyob nrog ib tus tsiaj zoo nkauj no, nws yog ib qho uas muaj ntau qhov kev tsis txaus siab feem ntau tuaj rau hauv koj lub siab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias koj nkag siab txog lub luag haujlwm loj npaum li cas. txhais tau hais tias yuav coj mus rau hauv ib tug dev thiab npog tag nrho nws cov kev xav tau.
Yog tias koj mob siab rau dev, tej zaum koj twb paub lawm tias lawv yog cov tsiaj sib raug zoo, uas lawv nyiam kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv tsev neeg thiab lawv muaj peev xwm tsim kev sib raug zoo siab heev.
Tus cwj pwm ntawm tus dev sib npaug ua rau ntau tus neeg xav tias cov tsiaj no yog cov tsiaj zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis xav txog tus cwj pwm zoo li no peb yuav tsum nug peb tus kheej, Puas yog dev? tsev ib leeg txhua hnub? Peb sim daws cov lus nug no hauv kab lus hauv qab no ntawm peb qhov chaw.
Dab tsi ua tau thiab tsim nyog
Puas tau aub nyob hauv tsev ib leeg txhua hnub? Yog lawm, qhov xwm txheej no tuaj yeem tshwm sim thiab hmoov tsis nws tshwm sim ntau zaus, yog li peb yuav tsum nug peb tus kheej, nws puas tsim nyog rau tus dev nyob ib leeg hauv tsev txhua hnub? Tsis yog, |
Ntau tus dev tsim kev sib txuas nrog lawv tsev neeg, thiab thaum lawv tawm hauv tsev ib leeg lawv raug kev nyuaj siab los ntawm kev sib cais, xav tias raug hem thiab txaus ntshai thaum lawv tus tswv tsis nyob hauv tsev.
Kev sib cais kev ntxhov siab tuaj yeem thiab yuav tsum tau kho thaum nws tshwm sim ntau zaus ntawm kev sib cais uas tsis ntev, txawm li cas los xij, nws yuav tsum tau txhais raws li cov lus teb ib txwm nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej uas tus dev nyob ib leeg hauv tsev txhua hnub.
Cov xwm txheej no puas haum tus dev xav tau?
Aub uas nyob ib leeg txhua hnub hauv tsev (hauv cov tsev uas tsis muaj qhov chaw sab nraum zoov), Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau?Qhov no yog ib tug dev thawj qhov kev xav tau uas tsis hwm thaum qhov xwm txheej no tshwm sim.
Raws li peb tau hais los lawm, tus dev yog ib yam tsiaj uas muaj kev sib raug zoo heev thiab xav tau kev sib raug zoo nrog tib neeg, tab sis yog nws tsev neeg tsis nyob hauv tsev thaum nruab hnub, Kev sib cuam tshuam tuaj yeem tshwm sim?
Qhov no ua rau tus dev mus rau lub xeev ntawm kev ntxhov siab thiab ntxhov siab, uas thaum kawg tuaj yeem cuam tshuam los ntawm kev coj cwj pwm phem, vim qhov no yuav yog ib qho ntawm ob peb txoj kev uas tus dev yuav tsum tswj nws lub zog, qee zaum, kev coj cwj pwm uas tshwm sim yog obsessive-compulsive xwm.
Ib tug dev yuav tsis zoo siab los yog muaj kev noj qab nyob zoo yog nws nyob ib leeg hauv tsev txhua hnub
Puas yog qhov xwm txheej no tshwm sim dhau lub sijhawm teem tseg?
Dab yuav tiv tsis tau zoo nrog cov kev hloov pauv uas tshwm sim hauv lawv ib puag ncig, qhov no kuj tshwm sim ntau zaus rau tib neeg, txawm li cas los xij, peb paub tias lub neej tsis yog kab thiab ntau zaus lawv tshwm sim hloov peb yuav tsum fim nyob rau hauv txoj kev zoo tshaj plaws.
Tseem yog cov neeg hauv tsev neeg uas siv sij hawm ntev tshaj nrog tus dev tau mus txawv tebchaws ob peb hnub, kuj tseem tuaj yeem hloov kho hnub ua haujlwm lossis muaj teeb meem kev noj qab haus huv uas yuav tsum tau mus pw hauv tsev kho mob ntawm ib tug tswv cuab ntawm tib neeg tsev neeg.
Cov xwm txheej no tsis yog los ntawm kev yeem thiab ib tus yuav tsum hloov kho kom zoo tshaj plaws, hauv qhov no, peb yuav tsum xyuas kom meej tias peb tus dev yoog tau zoo rau qhov xwm txheej tshiab.
Ua li no, txhob nkim sij hawm hlub, ua si lossis thaum koj rov los tsev, koj tus dev yuav tsum paub tias koj tseem muaj rau nws. Nco ntsoov sim kom lwm tus tuaj yeem tuajmus tsev tsawg kawg ib zaug thaum nruab hnub coj nws tawm mus taug kev thiab cuam tshuam nrog nws.
Ntawm qhov tod, yog tias qhov xwm txheej yuav tsis muaj hnub kawg thiab koj hlub koj tus dev tiag tiag, koj yuav tsum paub tias qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj yog nrhiav tsev neeg tuuas tau txaus siab rau qhov xav tau ntawm channel.
